Three Powerful Steps To Stop Your Divorce And Save Your Marriage
If you want to stop your divorce and save your marriage, you can do it any time.
It will never be too late to do this.
You can stop the divorce even in the last minute.
It is simple.
It just requires three steps.
Before outlining the three steps, I would like you to understand a couple of things.
Relationship break up is so common that people often jump to the conclusion that divorce is the only way out from a difficult marriage.
Since break up is a painful process, people want to get over it by picking the seemingly easy option of divorce.
What they do not realize is that divorce is not automatically going to end the pain of break up.
Divorce can be the best option in a few cases but in most of the cases, saving the marriage is both the easier and better way to end a break up.
Many couples, after getting divorced, live in regret and remorse.
They realize that divorce was a wrong solution to their problems but it is too late to mend things.
So, please remember to explore all possibilities of a reconciliation before you decide to formalize a break up.
Now, let us look at the three steps: Locate the Problem: Do you know what caused your break up.
It may not be the petty quarrel you had on your last date.
That quarrel, in all probability was a symptom of the problem in your relationship.
It is not difficult to go back in time, analyze the various incidents in your relationship and find out where the problem started.
You will find that the origin of the problem lies elsewhere.
Make an honest attempt to solve the problem: This is easier said than done.
Once you have identified the problem, then think what can be done to overcome it.
Action may be needed from your side or from your ex partner's side or from both sides.
You need to talk to your partner about the possible ways of fixing the problem.
The chances are that your ex was also not aware of the real problem and once you take up the issue, they might be open for a discussion.
Start all over: This means that both of you should be willing to ignore, if not totally forget the bitter things that happened in the past and make an honest beginning.
It should be like building a new house, after your old house was destroyed by a tornado.
With commitments from both sides, you can work miracles in your relationship.
It will never be too late to do this.
You can stop the divorce even in the last minute.
It is simple.
It just requires three steps.
Before outlining the three steps, I would like you to understand a couple of things.
Relationship break up is so common that people often jump to the conclusion that divorce is the only way out from a difficult marriage.
Since break up is a painful process, people want to get over it by picking the seemingly easy option of divorce.
What they do not realize is that divorce is not automatically going to end the pain of break up.
Divorce can be the best option in a few cases but in most of the cases, saving the marriage is both the easier and better way to end a break up.
Many couples, after getting divorced, live in regret and remorse.
They realize that divorce was a wrong solution to their problems but it is too late to mend things.
So, please remember to explore all possibilities of a reconciliation before you decide to formalize a break up.
Now, let us look at the three steps: Locate the Problem: Do you know what caused your break up.
It may not be the petty quarrel you had on your last date.
That quarrel, in all probability was a symptom of the problem in your relationship.
It is not difficult to go back in time, analyze the various incidents in your relationship and find out where the problem started.
You will find that the origin of the problem lies elsewhere.
Make an honest attempt to solve the problem: This is easier said than done.
Once you have identified the problem, then think what can be done to overcome it.
Action may be needed from your side or from your ex partner's side or from both sides.
You need to talk to your partner about the possible ways of fixing the problem.
The chances are that your ex was also not aware of the real problem and once you take up the issue, they might be open for a discussion.
Start all over: This means that both of you should be willing to ignore, if not totally forget the bitter things that happened in the past and make an honest beginning.
It should be like building a new house, after your old house was destroyed by a tornado.
With commitments from both sides, you can work miracles in your relationship.
