How to Make Him Fall in Love - Stop Doing Things That Don"t Work!
Do you understand what it takes to make a guy fall in love? Or are you constantly spinning your wheels with little to show for it? Are you guilty of trying to create an instant relationship? If you are tired and fed up when it comes to making him fall in love, it's time to stop doing the things you already know don't work.
First, you need to completely overhaul the way you think about commitment.
Men and women have completely different ideas about when commitment should take place.
Most women think that after a few good dates, it's time to get serious.
Men, on the other hand, like to take it slow.
Why? They are evaluating the cost of making a commitment versus the cost of not making a commitment.
Another way to think of it is a business term, ROI, return on investment.
We could learn a thing or two from the guys.
You really need to give some consideration to how being involved with this person is going to impact your life on a daily basis.
Men know that a whiny woman today will only become worse as time goes on.
So he's asking himself if he can live with that or if it's a deal breaker.
Second, if you want to make a guy fall in love, don't make assumptions about anything.
Sometimes women assume that a relationship is headed in a certain direction because of how they feel without ever really considering the guy's perspective.
You may think that because you are feeling a certain way, it must mean he feels the same thing.
Then, when he drops the bomb that he's not reciprocating your feelings, you are surprised and disillusioned.
Consider the fact that you may not ask him what he's feeling because you are afraid of the answer.
Deep down you know something is off, but it's easier just to hope his feelings line up with yours.
Avoiding reality will only set you up for disappointment and hurt.
It's best to find out what he's really thinking in a non-pressured setting.
See how easy it is to make a guy fall in love once you stop doing all the things that don't work.
Be strong and develop a fearless attitude when it comes to men.
Tell yourself that the truth, no matter how hurtful, is always better than living in a fantasy world hoping that one day his feelings will catch up to yours.
First, you need to completely overhaul the way you think about commitment.
Men and women have completely different ideas about when commitment should take place.
Most women think that after a few good dates, it's time to get serious.
Men, on the other hand, like to take it slow.
Why? They are evaluating the cost of making a commitment versus the cost of not making a commitment.
Another way to think of it is a business term, ROI, return on investment.
We could learn a thing or two from the guys.
You really need to give some consideration to how being involved with this person is going to impact your life on a daily basis.
Men know that a whiny woman today will only become worse as time goes on.
So he's asking himself if he can live with that or if it's a deal breaker.
Second, if you want to make a guy fall in love, don't make assumptions about anything.
Sometimes women assume that a relationship is headed in a certain direction because of how they feel without ever really considering the guy's perspective.
You may think that because you are feeling a certain way, it must mean he feels the same thing.
Then, when he drops the bomb that he's not reciprocating your feelings, you are surprised and disillusioned.
Consider the fact that you may not ask him what he's feeling because you are afraid of the answer.
Deep down you know something is off, but it's easier just to hope his feelings line up with yours.
Avoiding reality will only set you up for disappointment and hurt.
It's best to find out what he's really thinking in a non-pressured setting.
See how easy it is to make a guy fall in love once you stop doing all the things that don't work.
Be strong and develop a fearless attitude when it comes to men.
Tell yourself that the truth, no matter how hurtful, is always better than living in a fantasy world hoping that one day his feelings will catch up to yours.
