If things haven't been the same between you and your spouse for a while, and you have the feeling that your marriage is heading for divorce, then do something immediately and try to save it.
There are warning bells ringing every day for you - don't ignore them - if you love your spouse, then figure out what the problems are and fix them right away! It could be that you and your spouse have jobs that just keep you too busy, or maybe your circle of friends is too demanding of your time, but, if you don't try to give each other the time that you deserve from each other, it will be too late, and you will end up in the divorce courts.
When you and your spouse first got married, you could talk to each other quite easily - in fact, you both enjoyed talking to each other so much, that you grabbed any opportunity to talk and laugh with each other.
Those days are long gone, but with a little effort from both of you they can come back again, and be just as enjoyable as before.
Your marriage is heading for divorce, so what do you do about it? Very importantly, you and your spouse HAVE to communicate with each other - this problem that you have involves both of you, so you both need to put in some effort to fix it.
Go through each day of the week and write down what your activities are.
You will more than likely find that some of them aren't that important and can be done away with.
Find some time from each day that you can devote to each other.
This is the time when you can sit quietly and discuss any problems you have, and how to fix them before they get out of hand.
Your marriage is heading for divorce - make time to communicate with each other if you don't want your marriage to end.